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My 2-year-old son

can’t put on his own socks.  However, he has learned how to use the touchpad on the laptop.  No kidding - the other day we watched him use one little finger to carefully guide the arrow to a specific spot, then click the button to gain access to the programs on the computer.  Wow.  I guess I’m spending too much time on the computer during the day.  Maybe if I demonstrated the art and science of donning socks as frequently as I log on to the laptop, Charlie would be able to do that, too. 

Charlie’s Evaluation

I’ve been concerned about Charlie’s speech and language development for a while.  So, we scheduled an evaluation with the state Early Intervention team.  They sent a Speech Pathologist and an Occupational Therapist, and did a test called the Infant-Toddler Developmental Assessment.  The results indicated that his cognitive skills, social/emotional development, and “self-help” skills were all age-appropriate (in the 22-25 month range.)  His communication skills and gross-motor skills were delayed (in the 18-21 month range.)  I would have been more comfortable with tests that yield a standard score and percentiles, but this is what they use initially.  The important thing is putting together some specific, measurable, appropriate goals for treatment, and if they can do that with this test, that’s fine.  If not, I’ll push for more testing until we get enough information to work with.

The SLP observed that he definitely has communicative intent, but that his imitation skills are very weak.  His vocabulary is limited (he uses maybe 25 words, when he should be using at least 50), and he isn’t putting words together in short phrases and sentences yet.  In addition, he doesn’t use the words that he has consistently, and never ever on request.  She is leaning toward a diagnosis of apraxia.  They are going to recommend therapy at least once a week, and hopefully we can get that rolling within the month.

I was really happy to have a second opinion, and couldn’t believe that apraxia never crossed my mind before.  I was convinced he was a late talker because I wasn’t playing with him enough or talking to him enough.  Even though he showed some hallmark signs of motor speech problems, I totally missed it, thinking it had to be all my fault.  I’m sure if he was someone else’s kid, I would have picked up on it - strange the things you miss…

Anyway, he also showed delays in gross motor skills.  They noted that his running isn’t really running, but more of a bouncy, fast walking.  He’s generally low-tone, and he has a lot of unnecessary rotation in his trunk when running.  He also had trouble standing on one foot, and the way that he manages stairs is immature.  They recommended more time at the playground, etc.  I don’t know that they are willing to recommend therapy, but I’m going to push them and see if I can get it for him.  In the meantime, I’m scouring the local area for some kind of tumbling/gymnastics class that we can attend.  More on that later…

The OT said that he technically passed the items on the fine motor portion of the test, but she has qualitative concerns about his development in this area.  She said that at this age, he should be favoring either the left or right hand, and he really isn’t.  His crayon/pencil grasp is immature, his ability to stack blocks is somewhat limited, and his little hands still have that chubby-baby look - all of these things indicate low muscle tone, weakness and poor coordination.  She wants to have another look at him in 3-4 months, and in the meantime she recommended some activities to improve his fine-motor strength and coordination (play-doh, etc.)

So, we’ve been really happy about the mild weather lately, because that means we can spend more time at the playground.   And to reassure whoever might be wondering, none of these things are serious or permanent - a little therapy and some focused attention and he’ll be caught up in no time.  :)

Charlie is two!!!

I’m posting this a day late, but Charlie turned 2 on Friday!  He had a party with his cousins at my sister-in-law’s house over Thanksgiving, so we just did a little cake and presents at home last night.

Here’s what happened when the cake was cooling and mom’s back was turned:

Charlie helped himself to a couple of bites of cake, before it was finished:

Here’s a picture of Charlie in his party hat:

And Daddy in his party hat:

The cake (missing pieces were easily covered with icing):

Charlie blowing out the candle:

Mmmm…cake!

We also took some video - here’s Charlie saying “hi” to Elmo:

I finally caught Charlie making the sign of the cross and “praying”:

Happy Birthday Charlie!

Halloween 2007

One of our nicknames for Charlie is “the roaming gnome” because he’s about that size and he’s always on the move, getting into stuff here and there around the house.  So, for Halloween, I made him a little garden gnome costume (nothing major, a little vest, belt, hat, and beard.)  He didn’t wear all the parts - I knew the beard would be a long shot, but he still looked fairly gnome-like without it, I think.  We even took him around trick-or-treating.  We just stopped at a few of our neighbors’ houses - he’s not really into candy and wasn’t 100% clear on the concept of Halloween, but he loved being out in the neighborhood past his bedtime!

Here’s one shot with Charlie sort of wearing the beard:

The gnome with his little watering can:

Gnome and mommy:

Born to ride!

We got Charlie a tricycle last weekend.  He loves it!!  He can’t pedal yet by himself (notice the stick on the back so that we can push), but he loves that he can steer.  He much prefers the bike to the stroller when we go for walks.  He also loves the helmet.  He insisted on wearing it during dinner the other night.  He got a little salsa on it, but no biggie.  :)

My new favorite developmental milestone…

Charlie actually started doing this a couple of weeks ago.  Out of nowhere, he tried to make the sign of the cross when we sat down to eat.  It is the most adorable thing I have ever seen.  Sometimes he’ll do it several times during a meal.  He’s got the “Holy Spirit” part down, but he often forgets the “Father and Son” parts.  I wish I had video of it, but you’ll just have to take my word for it. 

My preemie

is now a hulking monster of a toddler.  We went for his 18 month checkup, and our little peanut, who was 4 pounds and change when we brought him home, is now in the 75th percentile for weight and the 90th percentile for height!!  Some pictures for comparison:

Charlie at 2 weeks old:                         Charlie at 18 months:   

Amazing.  It looks like the kid on the right ate the kid on the left.  And then stole his chair…

Visit from Grandma and Grandpa

A couple of weeks ago, Charlie’s grandparents came up to visit from Florida.  We had lots of fun! 

One of the days they were here, we went to a local strawberry patch to pick berries.  Charlie was in heaven.  He wasn’t so interested in picking the berries, but he was all about eating them!

Mmmmm…strawberries!

Who needs hair products…

when there’s leftover mashed potatoes?

Charlie recently decided that the best way to clean his hands after eating is to wipe them on his hair.  Its not that big a deal at dinnertime, as he’s due for a bath anyway, but when he does it at breakfast…*sigh*

I can’t really blame him, though.  Look at that hold!

Surprise!

Charlie has been leaving me surprises this week.  A couple of days ago I caught him experimenting with crayons:

 

“Look, Mommy, they float!”

This morning, I went to move the clothes from the washing machine into the dryer and I found this:

I wonder what else he’s hidden somewhere around the house…

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